Conflict Styles
People typically have a preferred way of dealing with conflict. None is superior to any other, and it is possible to have more than one style. Five major styles include: Avoiding, Competing, Accommodating, Compromising, and Collaborating. Take the quiz and find out your most commonly used strategy!
License: CC-BY
Written by
Root Cuthbertson (2021)
Reginald Adkins (2006)
Joan Wagner (editor 2018)
Katherine Pine, Bryan Hayden, Natasha Rascon (editors 2016)
Image by
Tim Mossholder
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